BLIND ITEM: “SELF-HATE!”

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“BLIND ITEM” (SELF-HATE)

Ever since he could remember, this black male celebrity has always hated his dark skin.  His self hatred is so strong, early on, he vowed to date only light skinned black women and white women.

Early in his career, he dated one famous black woman, after they broke up, he made it known: “I want an Aryan woman with keen features.”

He would eventually find his (self-proclaimed) Aryan goddess.

He was very emotional after she agreed to go on their first date, so much so, he had tears in his eyes.

Later, when he proposed marriage and she accepted, he cried like a baby.

He finally felt complete, he had snagged his trophy.

He called his male relatives to brag, he was on top of the world!

At first, he catered to her every need and then he began to take her for granted.  She became infuriated and left.

He was crushed. His world was falling apart, this couldn’t be!  He assumed he had her sexually addicted! How could his goddess leave him?  In his mind, these women were easier to date, easier to control, with less drama, why was this happening?

He’s putting up a front but he’s devastated and bitter!

Who is he?

111 thoughts on “BLIND ITEM: “SELF-HATE!””

  9. I’m going to go with Seal as well. I remember Heidi saying the main reason that she wanted to date him is b/c she saw his “print” through his bicycle shorts.

    This self hating fool was over there crying cause she said yes and Heidi was just looking to get broke off.

  10. So many self hating men in the industry but I have to go with the latest….SEAL. I truly believe that black men are starting to learn that women are the same no matter what the race. To be totally honest it comes down to independance. Heidi has too much money to be dealing with his B.S. If he had picked a woman of average means he would have more control.

    • Heidi will find somebody else and so will Seal…

      I’m sure Heidi isn’t the only one who would like to enjoy his package…there’s always someone else waiting in the wings if they haven’t come out already.

      • I think that’s what attracted Heidi Heidi Ho too Seal she said so
        She said when she first saw in he was wearing a pair of bike shorts and u know those glove fitting shorts don’t hide much

    • I remember when Charlie Wilson came out with a tribute song to Nicole Brown Simpson after she was murdered. He sung that song with so much emotion and I found out that he never met her. What was that about?

    • Well said ATL! If a man is a contrl freak then get a woman that wants to be dominated and submissive and who needs you or believe she does*cough*Tiny.

    • She fit right in with Kim and Kris Kardashian. I know this event is supposed to be a light hearted affair but this is taking it to a new low. And what’s going on with the president singing every three to four weeks? Maybe I’m being too sensitive but there’s something about it that makes me uncomfortable.

        • Pimp Kris was at the correspondant’s dinner looking stupid. They can’t buy class and Kanye is stupid. He lost his mind after his mom died.

          • You are right Black Playmate they are millionaires who can not buy class.

            Kayne has not been right mentally since his mom died. I don’t care what anyone says. I think when his mom died part of him died too.

        • I don’t care the occasion, the cost or attire whenever a Kardashian is on the scene its as if there’s a neon light screaming across their foreheads “Pu$$y for sale!!!” “Got that cooch, holla at ya girl!”

      • @teina…re: The Presidents singing…I agree I want to see him more serious…so it will appear that he can handle the US….always playing around is not a good look…especially during election time…he can do whateva he likes in after Jan 2013.

    • I thought the same when I saw Rosario…I was thinking ‘where did she think she was going?’ I wonder if she felt out of place and if ppl were staring at her….

      • I just saw her pic. What in the harlot couture world did she have on? A total embarrassment! That dress was not appropriate for any type of WH sponsored event. I guess any kind of infamy will do in a pathetic attempt to extend your short-lived 15 minutes.

    • @Hidoll…I’m catching up on my Scandal recordings and I’m enjoying it as well….I’m not too happy that they have/had Kerry playing a mistress to a white guy…

      • Yeah Mokitty that’s the one glitch. Is it me or has anyone else notice that when a actor or actress who in real life mate is white on whatever movie or t.v. show he or she stars in their coupled with a white boyfriend or girlfriend

    • Scandal = Loving It! Rielle Hunter, John Edwards bust it baby B/K/A baby momma better recognize she could of been just another foul stench @ a dump site.

      • John Edwards is scum. He dogged his wife out, he dogged his side piece out, denied his own child, allegedly misspent campaign funds. He has the morals of a jelly fish. If you look up cad in the dictionary his photo will accompany the definition. Oh, Rielle is scum too.

        • Okay Teina I’m gonna say to you what I said to Diva. Lol don’t be so bashful how do you REALLY FEEL about that lay down cheating,lying dog?

  14. You know I don’t mean to sound like a Debbie Downer but this thing about Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey renewing their wedding vows every year is just not romantic or cute. It’s something about that I wonder who’s idea was it to do this every yr? I can see if they did it after 10yrs. I’m sure by now their family and close friends are bored

      • Jackie and Doug Christie do the same thing every year. Per Jackie, “if your always planning a wedding, you wouldn’t have time to plan a divorce”.

        Maybe Nick and Mariah feel they have something to prove to everyone. Too many people thought they wouldn’t even make it THIS long.

    • Nick and Mariah…uh how did the constant vow renewal work for Seal and Heidi? I’ll wait………………….. doing this constantly to me is an indicator that couples like these are more interested in playing at being married & just want the fantasy part of it.

  15. I’ve read the guesses and I like the Seal guess. Wasn’t it revealed on this board that a couple of days after Seal and Klum first had sex, Klum announced that she was pregnant and Seal was so stupid he thought Klum was pregnant by him when in fact she was already pregnant by a rich white guy that didn’t want to have anything to do with their child.

    Before I read the guesses I was thinking about Dennis Haysebert, the Allstate commercial guy; but I don’t know anything about his background and marital status. However, I do remember that someone on the board stated that Haysebert claimed that his dad was jealous that he had a white woman.

    • I think Dennis Haybert’s first and second wives were Black. I had a big crush on Dennis Haysbert until I read what was on PR about his dad bein jealous of him having a white woman..

      This blind item sickens me the way some Black men act in regards to dating/marrying interaccial. It’s different you genuinely love that person.

    • Leona is stupid, got with that ugly ass soccer player, got pregnant and he dogged her ass out and like dumb ass Fantasia, she tried to commit suicide, didn’t give a damn about her baby, put the love of a man over her child.

  17. I definitely think this is Seal, I remember watching the interview when Heidi said she noticed his package and was interested. Heidi was preggers when she met Seal with (I think Steve Bings baby) or was it the woman who use to date Hugh Grant and she married the Indian guy pregnant with Steve Bings Baby.

    I remember when he dated Tyra….doubt it’s tyrese…heard about the how you doin rumors

    If it’s not Seal, not sure who it could be….gotta think some more

    BTW, I’m hooked on Scandal absolutely love the show….it’s getting deep can’t wait to see what happens next….I really feel this one.

    • I guess his package wore off but her stupid ass was bragging to anyone that would listen, I feel so lucky married to Seal, watching him in the shower, yada yada. I knew their shit was on shaky ground, when u gotta constantly put it out there like that, all ain’t right on the home front.

      • It was always a rumor that Seal had a child in L.A. Flavor Flav is another dark man who dates white girls, he neglected his full black kids and is super dad to his biracial child.

      • I notice whenever a couple have to constantly talk about how great their relationship is and/or how much in love they are with each other something is not right. If you love each other cool but to do all the theatrics and etc…I have my eyebrows raised.

      • Sigh…yep used 2 luv Will & Jada but the need especially from Jada to constantly profess their undying bond & phenomenal sex life didn’t take long to sound like a used car salesman trying to get us to buy a lemon.

  18. Seal is a fucking coon. Damn fool even adopted a white man’s kid to get with his so called Aryan and now his dumb ass think he getting some of her money in the divorce. This coon is really gonna cry when the judge rejects his claim. Heidi must have got lasik and got a good look at what she married and said hell to the naw. Idiot. Boo hoo, he lost his white goddess.

    • I agree, the fiancé looked more masculine than Hines. Was Hines sexually conflicted? It seems like I’ve heard that before. Or maybe I’m confusing Hines with Al Green.

  20. If this is Seal, he has issues. Love yourself and the skin you were born in. His ex wife is not going down without a fight. Seal signed a prenup, did he forget that? It was obvious that he wanted biracial kids with light skin. The same with Eddie Murphy marrying Nicole. They try and dilute their dark skin by marrying light or white, they don’t want their kids to have their complexion. Michael Jordan did the same thing with Juanita and his new Becky and Jamie Foxx only dates white or light because of his darkness. On the old board, two of these dark skin men were mentioned as the ones discriminating against black women who had the same complexion as them. Talk about self-hate.

    • You know when these other women of other races take them for everything they have I don’t feel sorry for them…kind of serves them right. They think a woman of a different race is going to be different. We women are essentially the same. The color does not change the situations and or circumstances.

    • All of these guys are sick. Jamie Foxx came from a screwed-up background, it’s not an excuse but I’m not surprised at him having issues but what’s Murphy’s and Jordan’s problem? With his mentality, who does Murphy think is going to want his funny looking daughter who models in those hair care ads? And Jordan’s daughter looks like him wearing a wig. These men need help. And the women (Nicole and Juanita) who allowed themselves to be pawns in, and complicit with, this sick colorism tomfoolery should be ashamed.

  22. You know I feel sorry for people with color complex issues. Alot of times it is other black folk making someone of a certain complexion hate their skintone, whether they are too dark or too light, our OWN people causes alot of the pain of these people. Soooo they have it ingrained in them to hate their skin tone or hair texture, they will pick a mate and produce a child that will not have to suffer the cruel barbs that were thrown at them all their life.
    Is it wrong maybe but in Seals, Eddie Murphys and etc they see it as giving their children a chance not to be terrorized abouf their skin color.
    Just like Dennis Rodman and Whoopi Goldberg i know they probably wanted to get with someone black, but what are you supposed to do when your OWN people are rejecting you? I saw Eddie’s and Mike’s great looking kids…anyway
    Seal and the other one who married Kimora need to watch themselves and kinda get they mind right before they pick another mate.

    • I agree. We started trhis non-sense. I can hear the name calling now. Its sick like the mother who was calling her child a chimp and othe derogatory names. When its coming from your own how do you suppose to feel? Like its no biggie, really? But what are you to do when another race see your true beauty. You are going to leech on to that person. I don’t feel their feeling was intentional. But pain and hurt has no color. Even though they are men, they still have feelings. So who taught them to love the skin they are in?? I remember Akon’s Behind the Music’ he said the exact same thing. He couldn’t understand why he was called these nasty anmes from African Americans. We have to face facte first. Which is…….stop the hatred among ourselves. Then we can love ourselves a lot more. Stop ignoring the fact the words can either tear down or build up..

      • I was waiting on some food at this takeout, guy behind the counter is a nice dude, always friendly. These two black women in line behind me kept laughing and talking about him, saying he was too black, like a tar baby, they talked loud, he head them, I felt so sorry for him, you could tell his feelings were hurt.

  23. I didnt mean to come off preachy but until we as black folk see past color, who is lite bright and who is a tar baby, only then will the whole self hate thing get better.

    • I grew up in Georgia, and we said anyone darker than a brown paper bag were considered a “tar baby.” What a shame!!! It is nothing we can do anything about. Just like I wear a size 11 shoe. What can I do about that? I am still a human being!!!

  24. This Blind item is so common amongst rich/famous/successful black men that if Stevie Wonder is blind folded, spun around & placed on the statue of Liberty & given a rock to throw…He can’t & won’t miss! OT: Now I’m starting 2 wonder about these famous ‘Cancer couples’. Ryan Oneal announces he’s battling it (Farah died of it) front page mentions Greogry Hines whose boo looks like one mo Dude (they both die from it) & just watching Liberace’s ex on E!, I can’t help wondering if Cancer is REALLY cancer ya know what I mean? Afterall these are people who act like they are immune 2 the virus and their sexual irresponsibilities are often well documented. Call me Arsenio cuz this makes me go “Hmm?”

    documented

  29. Black men are worst with this too black shit than black women. I know a lot of black women who don’t have a problem dating darker hue men but the majority of black men will not go near a woman with a darker hue. A black woman will go on record and say, I prefer my men to be darker than me but a black man, never gonna do it. Spike Lee admitted this, a long time ago. Black women were crushing on Morris Chestnut and Michael Jordan in their prime, you never gonna see a black man crush on a dark woman, in private or in public. I’ve never heard a famous black man say, i prefer dark skinned woman publicly and you never will.

  30. That dumb ass fool on the front page can take his bleaching creams and stuff them. What a house Negro. Funny thing, his black ass don’t look no better with light skin, he ugly as fuck either way. He really think his ass is making a statement and doing something and got the nerve to say if black women can pay for this and that well I can bleach my skin. Is his dumb ass gonna apply his low rent bleach creams in prison for the two murders he suspected of. This ignorant Negro need to go hide.

  31. Almost forgot about Sammy Sosa, I heard he married the first white woman who agreed to dance with his coon ass at a club. Talk about desperate but that ugly Negro been known to creep with black women. He woke up and now his ass want to look white. He look like a motherfucking sho nuff fool. That white woman dropping babies on him left and white and now he a white man. I heard he caters to her, she’s his queen but we saw how that shit worked with Seal.

  33. color struck & color dum. It’s so bad here in the mid-west there are black people who refer to any attractive black person as light skinned & will get mad if you don’t know what the hell they’re talking about.

  34. “I didn’t feel that I looked beautiful during birth, but who does? After being pumped with all those fluids and gaining so much weight… I barely recognized myself.”

    Seriously Beyonce LOL!!

    Sam Jackson and his wife LaTayna hmm……she doesn’t seem so secure to me espcially the things I have read about Sam Jackson on here.

  36. I’d guess Seal and Heidi Klum for the Blind Item. The famous Black woman he dated earlier in his career was Tyra Banks.

  37. S/N : All of those animals listed under Safari West are just plurals, not possessives. There shouldn’t be any (‘s) after the names. Sb just lions kangaroos zebras or whatever.. :)

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