xxx-plicit with karrine
It was a dreary overcast day in San Francisco, near Pier 39.
Models, pin-ups, professional dancers, local celebrities and athletes were about to board a party boat for a private “gumbo” party hosted by Panache Report.com
In the distance, I see an African-American woman emerge from a limousine, she is very pretty, wrapped in a full length fur, wearing sunglasses. Her designer heels click in rhythm as she walks towards the boat, I recognize her as Karrine Steffans, the notorious and scandalous “former” hip-hop video girl.
Karrine has a book in the works, contrary to popular belief, this book will not be a tell-all on the hip-hop industry and the famous men she was intimate with, instead, the book will focus on her life. The book has already been optioned by a production company.
Update: Karrine has a change of heart, it is being reported that her book will be a tell-all-on the men she came in contact with in the hip-hop industry.
Karrine boards after me, she has a strong presence and she seems oblivious to the male attention. She walks towards Myra Panache (the owner of Panache Report.com).
Myra brings Karrine over to me. A waiter is summoned, we are served gumbo, Myra’s special recipe, her culinary skills are legendary and the gumbo is delicious.
After lunch, an aide escorts Karrine and myself to a private area where I conduct the interview (UNCENSORED) as follows:
WORLD EXCLUSIVE
INTERVIEW:
Q: Your advice to aspiring video girls, what should they expect?
A: Expect the worst and hope for the best. The way the industry operates these days is very tricky. Most of the images and scenarios that are seen, and therefore expected, are unreal. They do not exist in the capacity in which they are shown. The lyrics and their videos are all part of a machine that runs off of the degradation of women and ignorant men. It's important for women to realize-when they step into this industry, it's make believe and they should act accordingly. I, of all people, cannot tell someone what and what not to do. All I can say is, whatever you decide, be smart. Know who are you as a woman and what you stand for as a person. Never let the people, places and things around you change your expectations of yourself. Strength and courage will get you far.
Q: If you had anything to do differently what would it be?
A: I'm not sure if I would make any changes. I am not a woman who lives with regret. Everything has made me the woman that I am today. And even though the road was rough and unpaved, it has brought me to a place of peace and understanding. But because I am at this place in my life, I can say this...If I had been given a choice on having a hard life or an easy life, and still being able to reach the same results...I would have chosen the easier road. But life doesn't work that way.
Q: What are your ultimate goals in the industry?
A: At the end of the day, all that matters is my son-and that he is taken care of for the rest of his life...based on the things that I do today. I have always been a writer and have written since grade school. I am happy to be able to use my God given talents to support my family. I have found my place as a writer and producer.
Q: Since you are referred to as "Superhead" in the industry, did you trademark the name?
A: I gave myself that name years ago as a way to cause waves, raise eyebrows, and in turn, make more money during my video days. When I made the decision to leave that lifestyle behind, I tried to hide from the fact-that girl was me. Once I began the publicity to support the upcoming books, series and film, I knew that the issue would come up again...and the world would be able to read about it. Now, contrary to popular belief, I am not a dummy, so I trademarked the word. This keeps anyone from using it without my written consent, especially in a derogatory manner. Or better yet, from some other girl, who sucks a good dick to adopt the name and make money off the legend that I created with my blood, sweat and tears...and spit.
Q: Married men vs. single men and what attracts you to a person and do you ever find yourself attracted to women?
A: Whether married or single, a man is nothing more than a man. I have had relationships with both and I don't see a difference. The differences in men doesn't lie in status, but in who they are as a man, lover and friend. The greatest love of my life (a famous man) is married and I can't hold that against him. He is a wonderful man, an awesome lover and the best friend I ever had. I am attracted to people based on who they are, from the inside out. I can see the light inside of someone from the moment I lay eyes on them. I'm sure that everyone has this spark, but some people's light, I just can't see. Every once in a while, I meet someone and all I can see is this glow and I know that's the one. That I'm going to make him a part of my life in some way. I am in no way attracted to women, in that sense. There's nothing like the heaviness if a man as he lays on top of you and the feeling you get just before he plunges inside of you. The feeling of his muscles and the scruff of his face. No woman can duplicate that, and as far as eating pussy is concerned, I have a few good men that are better than any woman I have ever had. And yes, I have had women. That's how I know I don't like them. I don't like to knock anything until I've tried it.
Q: Due to statements attributed to you and statements made about you, many people have come to the conclusion that you are a sexual freak? How would you respond to this accusation?
A: When I am with the man I love, I am all things. I am his bitch, his whore, his freak, his lover, confidant and friend. I have rarely had anonymous sex and have, in fact, loved every man that I have been with, in some sense of the word. When a man opens his life to you, when he shares his hopes and dreams, his misfortunes and disappointments and even cries to you at night, you have no choice but to fuck the dog shit out of him! There is nothing sexier than-when a man trusts you with pieces of him that he would never share with the rest of his world. That shit turns me on and it's that love, passing through the air at that exact moment, that turns me into an animal...the beast that people hear about.
Q: Famous men you find attractive?
A: Denzel Washington, Bill Clinton, Nicholas Cage, Tom Cruise, Blair Underwood and Will Smith.
Q: Are you involved in a relationship or a intimate friendship at this present moment?
A: Both. I have had a four year friendship, which tends to be intimate on so many different levels and I am also seeing someone romantically. The two men are completely different and they both bring joy to my life in so many ways. I am in love with my friend, in an almost mythical sense, and the man in which I am seeing romantically...well, I like him alot. I enjoy him and he makes me smile all day long.
Q: Biggest sexual fantasy?
A: Being totally enveloped by a man who sees me and appreciates me for who I am. Our bodies clinging together as if we were born to each other. Him loving every part of my body, inside and out, and being so turned on by my every breath. Him giving me all of him...every last inch and making me cry with joy and pain, screaming, scratching and pulsating. Begging him to stop and silently wishing that he doesn't. He's loving me in an way that will continue way after the sex is over and as we lay side by side, his only words are...let's do it again. Yep, been there, done that, still doing it.
Q: Most satisfying sexual experience?
A: When a man is inside of me and as he looks at me from above, his eyes show me that he's with me. Not just inside me physically, but that he's inside of my head, inside of my heart and that's where he wants to be. When a man cries just a little and I know that he's alive with passion and emotion. That's the best sex and I have it all the time.
Q: Ideal date with Karrine?
A: A man who is sure of himself that he can hold his own against me, without trying to compete with me. I still date, despite my relationships, and although these are friendly dates, I find that some men feel that they have to compete, either with me, or with my past. For a man to be able to spend time with me, he has to be a man for real. Peeing standing up doesn't automatically qualify you for the position.
Q: Your poster sold-out on your site, any plans to come up with more merchandise?
A: I released a new set of posters and have posters lined up for the next 3 months. I give the people what they want. The website has done very well and I will be revamping the site, making it more consumer friendly and interactive. Also, I have released the new product line for "Superhead", which is my new provocative women's line. This year it's tees and then we move into lounge wear, then soon, into men's apparel...boxers and what not. we all know...men love superhead. That covers Karrine.com and Superhead, but once the books and film are released, that's a whole different set of mainstream merchandising. Just keep your eyes on me...I've got more things up my sleeve.
Q: Favorite travel destination?
A: I'm an island girl at heart. Turks and Caicos Island, Palm Island, the Greek Islands, Barbados, Canary...any island and I'm at home...shit, even Staten Island, fuck it.
Q: Favorite perfume and fashion designer?
A: I have a gallery of perfumes and anyone who knows me knows where to shop for me. I have every Chanel scent ever made and even some vintage bottles. Cartier Musk, every Versace, Dior (Pure Poison is to die for), Tiffany, Hanae Mori...I can go on and on about perfumes..that, and shoes. My favorite designers vary from season to season depending on who's designing for whom. I've always been a Prada girl and can do anything in Armani. Gucci is a classic staple and I love Dior. But sometimes, the night calls for Yves Saint Lauren or Roberto Cavalli...I could go on and on. But don't get me wrong, my favorite day of the week is the day that I can throw on my white on whites, some CK sweats and a Gap tee, throw my hair in a messy bun and drive around LA undetected. That's what I love about this city. This is a tee shirt and jeans town and I love that. A pair of Sevens and a wife beater...that's me all day long
Q: Your favorite male rapper?
A: I am very happy to see the work that Kanye West is doing as well as the Roots and the Black Eyed Peas. My favorite artists right now are the ones who see the trap that we have fallen into as a society and that are sending messages through their music to at least try and rescue some of the young men and women who have been mislead.
Q: Who are your female role models/idols in the industry?
A: I don't have any.
I don't look for anyone else for inspiration. Everything that I
do has come from inside of me and I create the mold for myself, and then
break it. The ideas and sequences that run through my head are unique and
most people don't think as I do, therefore, how I could I use the average
person as a model of any sort. That's what creates repetition and a lost
of artistic appeal. So although I don't consider ayone to be my role model,
I do respect the authenticity and directness of Madonna. Not to mention
her audacity and business sense.
Q: How do you feel about menage a trois (three-way) sex?
A: I've had a few in the
past and I have no plans on doing it again. I'm not attracted to women,
so the whole thing becomes an act of power for me. I have to dominate the
situation and the other woman involved. I have to be able to dismiss her
immediately afterwards and therefore letting her know that she has just
been used by both of us. I'm not in any rush to be in that situation again
and I'm sure that my obsession with power is a sickness and I shouldn't
subject any more groupies to my tyrannical antics.
Q: After appearing in "A Man Apart" with Vin Diesel, do you plan to pursue
a film career or are you more comfortable working behind the scenes?
A: I really enjoy writing, producing and the entire creative process. I don't have any plans to act in the future, I'll be busy with the books, film and a series for at least a year. I could never say never again though. My experiences on "A Man Apart" was amazing and I have always loved craft, and still study to this day. But right now, I am very focused on life behind the scenes.
Q: Regarding sexual positions, do you prefer being on the bottom or the top? If you answer the top, is it because it's the power position?
A: I don't have a preference.
I enjoy who I'm with and when the attraction is high, you can find yourself
in the most amazing positions. Bent over furniture, on kitchen and
bathroom counters, on a hotel balcony overlooking the city, shower, toilet,
floor, elevator, parking lot...shit, your position changes based on where
your'e fucking!
Q: Many attractive women complain about their lack of female friends, a
famous black supermodel once said, due to her looks and ability to attract
men, women were always envious and resentful therefore she has never had
any real female friends throughout her life and she is fine with it, how
do you feel about this?
A: I have some very sweet girls in my life and I love them all. Growing up, I was a tomboy and always dressed in boys clothes and hung out with boys, doing boy things. So I never wanted to have girlfriends. Now that I'm an adult, it's nice to have my girlfriends, but I still feel far removed from them. And it has nothing to do with looks or attracting men because all of that is relative and very objective. Some men may not find me attractive and may find my friends attractive. It's more to do with the way that I think and the difference in the experiences in my life. I have larger plans than most women my age and I have figured out the sequence of my goals for the next 5 years. I have different expectations out of life than the people around me, and to be honest, most of the women in my life don't meet the criteria. That doesn't mean that I don't love them and support them as a friend, it just means that we are ultimately very different and that causes space between us. To this day, my best friend is a man.
Q: Several people in the industry have commented on your business savvy, how do you react to these comments?
A: As far as my intelligence
is concerned, I think that there is a major misconception about me, because
I made 2 years of questionable decisions. Or just because I have had
great sex with whomever I wanted, that means that I cannot be intelligent.
Or because I suck a mean dick, that means I'm uneducated. The
fact of the matter is-it takes a smart girl to suck a good dick. Every
woman knows how important it is to please her man. How good it feels
when you make his eyes roll back and his toes curl and crack. In my case,
I love making a man grab his ankles in ecstasy and scream until tears roll
out the corners of his eyes.. Popping blood vessels in a man's legs and causing
major damage at the hottest hotel. Every woman strives to suck a good
dick. Every woman should also strive to please her man in every other
way. How to fuck the bullshit out of him, suck a mean dick, ride it
like a champ, then get up, clean the house, feed the kids and bring in the
money. It takes a smart girl to know how to keep her man at home.
How to give it to him so good that he knows there's no one better. Shit,
I got tired of being the best. Tired of keeping other people's husbands.
Of them telling me about all the things their wives can't do or can't
do well. Women as a whole need to step up their game, sexually, economically,
spiritually and physically. I am a smart woman. Besides, playing
dumb is always the best strategy. People will say and do anything around someone
they underestimate.
Q: Many people are under the impression that your upcoming book is a tell-all
book and that it will focus on your life as a video girl in the hip-hop industry,
is it a tell-all book and will it focus on your life?
A: The upcoming book is
being written by an international best selling author, to be announced at
a later date. It will chronicle the first 25 years of my life, and a
section of that does include my short and explosive stint in the hip-hop industry.
But before the book gets to that point, it will touch on subjects such
as child abuse, neglect, rape and the effects of media on my life. The
images seen in film and music which changed my views of the world and made
me want to escape my own private hell and run away to the land of plenty.
The book is about looking for love and finally finding it within yourself.
We'll also touch on spirituality and the importance of self worth and
realization. This book is not a tell all. If I put all my cards on the
table, then I'm out of the game. Never tell all, just give them enough
and the story will tell itself. The story goes way beyond hip-hop.
What people fail to realize is that hip-hop was a part of my life for only
2 years. There are people in sports, film, television, rock, off shore
business, and even government that have graced my life and still do. Many
of those I would never turn on, and there are some in hip-hop stars who can
trust me, I will take their secrets to the grave... because they have been
good to me. I do have a long shit list though, and those names will not be
spared. It's all business, never personal. So no, this is not a tell
all about other people's lives and indiscretions. It is about those
who have touched my life in their unique ways and have somehow changed me.
These men are all good men and I have loved them all. The industry can
make you do some wicked things and become someone you were never meant to
be. This book will not hide that, nor will it exploit the fact.
Q: Despite the fact you are pretty and very feminine and sexy in appearance,
you have male traits in regard to attitude, relationships and business, tell
us about that..
A: I am my father's clone, which is probably why my mother always tried to destroy me. As I've matured, I've realized how much like him I am and I credit that with the way I have gotten through life. We, as a family, are all very unapologetic and straight up. Hate it or love it, we are not liars nor do we hold back whatever we think or feel on any subject. We go for what we want and let no one stand in our way and if someone tells us no, we go around them until they have no choice but to say yes. Fuck 'em is the family motto...and my father is the best at telling someone to fuck off. He, by no means has lived a glamorous life. He's gone from a drug dealer to a drug addict to a pimp to a hustler to a womanizer to a multi-million dollar business man with a stable home life. He has survived a life that has killed many, only to live better than many survivors. I am my father's child, I am him, reincarnate. My father has always said that my only mistake in life, was being born a woman. If I had lived my life as a man, no one would say the things they say. I would be celebrated instead of denounced. But hey...fuck 'em.
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